Who We Used To Be

A few days ago, PC and I found ourselves in the lobby of a private school we are hoping to send one of our kids to. As with everything, this decision and process has been fraught with arguments, threats, misinformation and PC's ever-present need to use everything as a negotiation tactic. Nonetheless, there we were, … Continue reading Who We Used To Be


Easy Like Sunday Morning (Ok, Maybe Tuesday Morning…)

Its been a little while since I've written here, which is somewhat ironic since a lot of things have happened in the past month. First and foremost, the name of this blog--Divorcing a Narcissist--became something of a reality on January 8th, 2019. Nearly 26 months after this nightmare began, a piece of it ended in … Continue reading Easy Like Sunday Morning (Ok, Maybe Tuesday Morning…)

Freedom…Just Another Word?

At least I'm free. That's what everyone tells me. Its what everyone has said from the beginning, but you're free of him. Everyone: family, friends, strangers. Internet friends. Myself. I have said and written those words again and again and again. Freedom. And yet, freedom comes with a hefty price tag. For starters, I am not free from … Continue reading Freedom…Just Another Word?